About Debbie

Debbie Mirza is a bestselling author, speaker, restorative coach, trained by Dr. Martha Beck, and a singer/songwriter.

She has a tender heart for people who have experienced narcissistic abuse.

She has experienced the covert type of narcissistic abuse throughout her life, in many types of relationships. After waking up to this realization she spent many years researching this relatively unknown type of emotional and psychological abuse and working on her own healing. This eventually led her to write her second book, The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse.

After hearing from so many people how much this book helped them, coaching others, and reading posts from survivors in her support group, she saw the need to create more resources for understanding and healing and now dedicates her time to doing just that.

Debbie has been interviewed on several podcasts and online conferences, and has created online courses, guided meditations, as well as writing other books to help with the healing process.

Debbie can be found on her YouTube channel talking about different aspects of covert narcissism as well as sharing some of her songs to help soothe the mind and heart.

During her own healing, she went through a period of much isolation where she spent a lot of time in nature and at home taking care of her heart. It was during this time that she wrote and recorded songs that would bring her and others calm, love, and tenderness. She named the cd, Soul Rising, as she felt her own soul rising to the surface as she healed fragmented parts of herself.

On this website you will find her music, courses, a link to her YouTube channel, and a link to a private online support group she created as well as other resources such as guided meditations.

She is not coaching at the moment as she is currently spending her time writing her third and final book in her series on healing after narcissistic abuse.

Debbie is also working on creating An Evening of Calm, a live event where she will bring her music and meditations to gatherings of people who desire to pause, take a break from life, and be with their hearts in a loving and gentle way. A space and time to be reminded that your innermost being is a wellspring of joy and limitless love. Stay tuned...

Debbie currently lives in Colorado but is opening her heart to finding a new home closer to dolphins, to honor the girl inside her that has dreamed of this her whole life. 😊