Debbie Mirza

$55 USD

Testimonial:

“I have read tons about domestic abuse, controlling partners and done a few courses over the last 6 of years, all of which I have learnt a great deal from, but this is the course that has helped me answer questions which all the other ones have barely touched on; that is how to heal and help my kids especially when I share care with my controlling ex.

The court system here in the UK, has a tendency towards 50/50 care and recommends co-parenting and communicating with your ex, but this has just brought me and the children into more and more conflict as it is impossible to work with someone who will not discuss anything and twists everything into my fault.

Debbie's style and content is so welcome and so genuinely caring and practical without making me feel overwhelmed and that I have to climb Everest every day to keep up.

She recognises that you may well have been told continuously that you are a rubbish parent but gently points out that if you were, you would not be interested in doing this course. She also answers many of the questions I have had for years such as why co-parenting is impossible, and recognises that abuse continues long after the divorce papers have been signed, and if not with me but using my children in a continual conflict.

Debbie also tackles how to deal with those difficult questions from the children when you don’t want to slag off the ex but at the same you want to help protect them from being used by the other parent

And she emphasises how important it is to work out what you want for me and my children's life with you and how you want your home to feel and encourages you to go for it, no matter what the ex tries to undermine it.

I am so grateful to Debbie for this course, It has helped me focus on our time together, disengage from the ex (which is about protecting me and the children not about being unreasonable and unhelpful) and it has gone a long way to restore my battered self confidence as a parent and as a human being. It has been in short bite sized chunks which are just about the right length and depth to reflect on and take on board. I am sure I will continue to refer to this course again and again. I cannot recommend it enough.”

Catherine